The past cannot be changed, you have no life at all if you cannot accept that and live in the present. This does not mean that you should not learn from your past, but it does mean that dwelling on dissappointment and regrets ,and brooding on fears and forebodings, can destroy your happinness right now.
You will be suprised how many people spend significant portion of their day reliving times that have been unhappy.They have kept alive memories of teacher who treat them unfairly, parents who were unkind and critical, friends who let them down.
It is pointless to live in the past. Shakespeare said, 'What's gone and what's past help should be past grief'. Even you csnnot change the aituation, you can learn to accept it.
Double tap if you agree😊
If you want success in your life, you have to make sure that you are truly, DEEPLY, totally, valuing who you are and what you do and what you believe in. I know you've probably heard it so many times it doesn't even make sense anymore. But hearing something is different than living it and realizing it in every cell of your being.
If you ever feel like you need other people's love and support to feel happy, loved, successful, that you need others to respect or value what you do in order for you to value it yourself, then it means you have to work on truly valuing yourself and what you do more.
I'm in the process of learning this one and it's huge, so I know how hard it can be to let go of the shameful and self-defeating patterns we have been taught or we have inherited in some way. But the truth is we are born in love, to love, to be loved. To be us. We just have to remember it. And only you can establish your own success. Only you can decide to finally allow all the good things to come. 🌸
Se vogliamo avere successo nelle nostre vite, dobbiamo dare valore a noi stessi, a ciò che facciamo, a ciò che amiamo, a ciò che ci interessa. Ad ogni molecola del nostro essere.
E se ci sentiamo come se avessimo bisogno del sostegno, approvazione o dell'amore di altri per essere chi siamo e fare ciò che vogliamo fare (oppure se siamo rancorosi perché non ci viene dato), significa che non stiamo dando valore a noi stessi.
Io sono ancora nel processo di impararlo, per cui so quanto a volte possa essere difficile lasciare andare la storia disfunzionale e i programmi di autolimitazione che ci sono stati insegnati o che abbiamo assorbito in qualche modo. Ma la verità è che la nostra natura è amarci, risvegliarci al nostro potere, alla nostra illimitatezza. Siamo qui per incarnare chi siamo in tutto il nostro potere. E solo noi possiamo decidere di farlo, di permettere al buono di entrare nelle nostre vite.
If this was your last moment... who do you appreciate, and why...and why haven't you told them? Do it now. Ripple effect a movement of love and appreciation... you never know whose life you can change or understand the depths your words can behold.
Getting my reading on.. I signed up for an amazing course by the head of my company, to get me through a bumpy time in all areas of my life. Building confidence and getting clear on my core beliefs and values is key to feeling more at peace in my person. Learning these skills should be mandatory for every human being, to become clear in what they want in life and how to achieve it. Creating a sense of clarity, creates worth and in turn, creates belonging. Belonging is a major cog in keeping our wellbeing strong and ticking over. I hope I can learn a lot from this course in the coming months. Thank you Celine Egan for putting this together. x